Dose 18 Personal Power
“No one else gets to decide who you are.” - Dawn Super
Letting people think whatever they want –
Daily Dose of Dawn at dawn # 18
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The first time you let people think whatever they want about you; your personal power magnifies exponentially.
I’m going to say that again, the first time you let them think whatever they want about you; your personal power magnifies exponentially.
What does that mean? And, what does it look like?
This was highlighted for me with a relationship that ended.
The person was hurling accusations and I was feeling the need to “defend myself” against who THEY said ‘I’ was.
I would spend way too much time in my own head explaining myself...
I had this sense that if they didn’t agree with me… if they didn’t see the ‘truth’ that they were… right?! Somehow…
But, that’s a crock. The relationship was over. MOST people do not think favorably about an ex – that’s why they’re an EX lol.
Cue the mindset strategy of the phrase:
I’m everything you say I am… to you
But your words do not define me… to me
I would repeat that in my head, each time he accused me of being something that I wasn’t.
His definition of me… is irrelevant.
Your definition of me… is irrelevant.
The only thing that matters is how ‘I’ define me.
When you can say that, and mean it… it fills you with strength.
When you get the opportunity to do this in real life – your power magnifies exponentially.
If you need help solidifying who you are to yourself, I wrote a book – How To Be On Your Own Side. Designed to be delivered over 14 days, it costs you less than a cup of coffee a day. Visit How To Be On Your Own Side.com
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